What to Do When Your Dog Ignores a Command He Knows

Nine times out of ten, he does not actually know it. A dog who sits in the kitchen and ignores sit at the park has a cue that works in one context, which is not the same as a trained behavior. The fix is not repeating yourself louder or adding a correction. It is going back and rebuilding the cue in the place where it failed, which usually takes a week.

Here is how to find out which problem you have and what to do about each one.

The fluency test

Run this before you conclude anything. Ten reps in each of four places, one session each, and score how many he does on the first cue within three seconds.

1. Living room, no distractions. Ten reps.
2. Backyard. Ten reps.
3. Front yard or driveway. Ten reps.
4. A sidewalk with normal foot traffic. Ten reps.

Eight or better out of ten in a location means the behavior is trained there. Anything below eight means it is not, and that is your starting point. Most dogs score ten, nine, six, and two. That pattern is not disobedience, it is an unfinished behavior.

The three second rule

Say the cue once. Count three seconds in your head. If nothing happens, do not repeat it. Help him instead, by luring, stepping into position, or using the leash, and then pay him lightly. Then reset and try again from scratch.

Repeating a cue five times teaches your dog that the cue means it is time to start thinking about responding eventually. I would rather you help him once and keep the cue meaning what it says. Within about thirty reps of this, most dogs sharpen up noticeably, because the word suddenly has a consistent meaning again.

The four real reasons it fails

• He has not generalized it. Trained in one room only. This is the majority of cases and the fix is location reps.
• Arousal is too high. Something has him at eight out of ten and there is no room for your voice. Increase distance from whatever it is, then cue again.
• The cue got poisoned. The word has predicted something unpleasant often enough that he hesitates. If your dog looks away or slows down when he hears the word, that is what you are seeing.
• Payment stopped too early. Somebody read that treats should be faded by week three. Behavior that never gets paid decays, and decay looks exactly like disobedience.

How to rebuild it

Take the worst scoring location from the fluency test. Work there for one week.

• Fifteen reps a session, one session a day. Five minutes. Do not do thirty reps, quality drops off a cliff after fifteen at a hard location.
• Pay every rep for the first three days. Real food, not kibble, in a hard environment.
• Then pay two out of three. Variable payment builds durability, but only after the behavior is coming back cleanly.
• Re test on day seven. You want eight out of ten. If you get six, run another week rather than moving on.

Then move to the next hardest location and repeat. Four locations at a week each and you have a genuinely trained cue in a month, which is faster than the six months most people spend being frustrated.

When to fix the word instead

If a cue is genuinely poisoned, meaning the dog visibly deflates or avoids when he hears it, retrain it under a new word. Pick a fresh word, teach the behavior from scratch with a lure, and never use the old one again. Trying to rehabilitate a poisoned cue takes longer than teaching a new one, so do not be sentimental about it.

The most commonly poisoned cue I see is come, because people use it to end fun and to summon dogs for baths and nail trims. If your recall word has been used that way, change it and protect the new one.

Where corrections fit

A correction is only fair when the dog has demonstrated eight out of ten in that exact location and then chooses not to respond. That is the standard I hold myself to. Correcting a dog for failing a cue he has never successfully performed in that environment does not teach him the cue, it just teaches him that the environment is stressful.

If your dog passes the fluency test at a location and still blows you off there, then you have a compliance issue rather than a training gap, and applying a leash correction paired with immediate help and payment usually cleans it up in a handful of reps. Note the order. Help and pay always follow the correction, never the other way around.

The maintenance nobody does

Trained behaviors decay without reps. Five reps a day of the cues that matter to you, spread across the day and in different rooms, is enough to hold everything in place. That is ninety seconds of work. Skip it for two months and the fluency test scores drop, which is when people say their dog forgot everything.

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